Relax it’s just sex

Relax it’s just sex ( that is if there is no prior D/s agreement )! We feel the need to post this for some of the new to the life individuals who have misconceptions about BDSM. The individual may have read one of of the more popular BDSM novel series, that we believe is about Read More …

Beginners to BDSM

Beginners to BDSM We often get emails on how to start your journey into BDSM, no matter what you identify with ( Dominant or submissive ) you’ve got to start somewhere. Reading books are fine, some really good books on the subject are around. However getting to know adults of like mind is the key Read More …

The Dominant Intent

The Dominant Intent Recently with all the discussion on that a Dominant should be fully in control of their lives before playing. Specifically the  comments made by people proclaiming a “Domme should be in complete control of their lives” ( notice I said “their” as a Domme can be a male or female..  although some Read More …