Omission during Negotiations

Omission, which is the act of holding back sometimes critical information, is the exact same as willfully lying! Not informing your play partner that you’ve had an issue with a sore shoulder that was bothering you earlier in the week, just because you want to play. Is WRONG!!! As a Top, during the Negotiation stages, Read More …

Relax it’s just sex

( that is if there is no prior D/s agreement )! We feel the need to post this for some of the new to the life individuals who have misconceptions about BDSM. The individual may have read one of of the more popular BDSM novel series, that we believe is about abuse more than what Read More …

Consent vs. Assent: Why is Assent a better way to obtain Consent?

DATE: 2013 Starting this off with the Definitions of these two Terms from Dictionary.com: Consent: Verb: to permit, approve, or agree; comply or yield (often followed by to or an infinitive): He consented to the proposal. We asked her permission, and she consented. Assent: Verb: to agree or concur; subscribe to (often followed by to): Read More …