do you have spanking in Langley ?
Not at the munch since it’s in a Vanilla setting, yet you can meet up with some really great kinksters there to session at a private or public play event.
It would be great to see a calendar with all the parties listed on one page.
It would make it so much easier to plan a trip at a glance.
We have something similar, if you’re familiar with iCal you can use Google’s Calendar too. Located here https://fetvancouver.com/events/calendar/
Im looking for a collar for my sub/wife to wear she is going to the noir fetish ball this weekend so time is a factor please reply by Tuesday if possible
Thanks for the comment, best to go directly to Silky, you can find him at Silky Sins
Am in Vancouver on the 2nd & heard about the munch on Alt. I’ve never attended one but am curious. Any comments or tips?
I will go to Vancouver for trip and I would like to get knowledge about BDSM. Where can I find women who offers that services?
I`ll be appreciate for your help.
Depends on what you want to know, there are a lot of great courses/classes around clubs as well as professionals. Depends on what you’d like to know.
I was wondering how I contact someone from the East Side Munch group, I am interested in attending but a time is not listed for the meetup.
real looking forward to attending to meet nice interesting people to hopefully meet talk and share.
looking forward to attending to meet nice interesting people to hopefully talk and share.
Awesome stuff! I am coming to Vancouver on June 10 and wonder if you have any events or other stuff happening around that time???
Also looking for session wrestling if you know of anything like that…
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Can you tell me if there is an “adult spanking group” in Abbotsford? And if “yes”, how can I contact them? Perhaps an email address..?
The Munch is all there is in Abbotsford, however there maybe private events you can get invited too. Other than that everything is mostly in Vancouver i.e. Vancouver Fetish Events such as MVK or Rascal’s Club.
Are there groups to connect to in Abbotsford? if so How do I make contact?
When attending a “MUNCH” do I walk in and ask for the “MUNCH” ????? or what?
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We can pass your contact information along to anyone interested. Good luck with selling your gear.
Hiya…..my concern here..is whether or not these gatherings would be an appropriate place for myself ….being a C.D…to connect w/other like-minded C.D.s…w/the objective being eventual consentual play-time meet-up(s)…`cause..other than the ultra-fantastic outfits/apparel,etc,I`m not into BDSM….light spankings are about as kinky as I get…(Of course,I`d be showing up @said munch in “Guy Mode”…lol)…Thank You for your advice + consideration in this matter…xxoooo Leigha
The dress code is “Nilla-Casual” so showing up in your “Guy Mode” isn’t a problem. And the Kinksters at the Munch are usually quite open minded and helpful. Which they could point you in the right direction. Good luck!
I am new to this whole concept and not sure what I am looking for. I know what I am not interested in but not much after that. I am looking for a strong female who is straight to maybe tell me some more about this. I am a straight woman who is a little lost and would appreciate some guidance. Would anyone who is a strong female who is in command of her own sexual o’s and is straight would mind passing on some wisdom please email me to start a conversation. I live in New Westminster area. I am new to BC and don’t know anyone here that can help me. Thanks
Apologies for not replying sooner, I am still not straight though.. Hope you found what you’re looking for! 🙂
Is someone going?? I wanna go, but I feel thats there is going to be empty because new years
Curious to start my New Years resolution tonight – what kind of conversations can we expect to have at the Munch tonight?
I can’t find a single store in the lower main land, that sells bondage rope for Shibari. Plz help me find one
A munch is usually defined as Location + Kinksters= Your Area Munch. Though one can travel to other munches located around our fair city. Try Lower Mainland/Fraser Valley Munches. So just show up in your every day clothing to meet people or even discuss scenes at upcoming events.
So what exactly is this munch thing? I really would like to go to some events but no one I know is into this sorta thing so it would be really sweet to meet some people in the community.
An informal gathering of like minded individuals held in a non-judgmental environment, mostly in a vanilla establishment such as a restaurant or other meeting place. So no kink related activities ever will occur.
You can check out our Munch list around Vancouver and the Lower Mainland/Fraser Vally area. Located here>>
Question; We are looking for something, maybe you can help.
To clarify, we live a 2hr drive away from an airport which would give us access to a 2hr flight to a metropolitan area, so, would like to shop online first, as travel to check something out is very costly.
We’d like a pro, who is discreet. Someplace where we could come, to have me stripped down to my underwear (male chastity device :), and strapped down to a table or such, for my wife to tease/torture me until SHE is happy (maybe with a Dom’s help?) , to be followed by nipple piercing while I am still restrained/gagged/etc. A very erotic type setting would be nice, maybe semi public with those present who are similarly inclined, maybe not. ???
Then maybe attend a bdsm or fetish event, or a similar social setting for drinks and R&R, meet some people, and a hotel/motel/B&B with a great restaurant , whatever, where certain fetish wear would not be looked down upon or questioned. Nothing real stupid, to give you an idea, My wife would probably be dressed in a skirted power suit, and myself in a suit as well, but maybe wearing a steel collar instead of tie, maybe heels instead of wingtips 🙂
What can you recommend?
Our only advice is to attend one of our many public events listed on our main page, there you maybe able to find someone willing to help you out with your fantasies. Good Luck! 🙂
I’ve just noticed all these improvements in Vancouver Fetish Directory that have me VERY pleased.
So I would like to come to the surrey munch but I don’t know anybody! I am brand new to the lifestyle and I know nothing and have no buddies to meet with..
When you meet at knight and day, is there a secret code word to know about? Lol
Usually the secret code word: “Where is the Surrey Munch table?” works at the front bar. In this case since it’s a rather big gathering it’s located in the far left back corner. Just listen for the loud ones! 😉
I am wondering if I may get some info on the North Vancouver Munch please
Address and major cross streets I am not familiar with the north shore area
You’d have to contact the host of the North Vancouver Munch, I believe it is at a residence, instead of a restaurant.
i am happy to spend time with everyone, but ultimately i am primarily looking for ways to connect with kinky bdsm gay Dom men. Is the munch typically well attended? What are my chances? i’d be disappointed if i drove from Bellingham and no one else showed up!
One point to clarify first, this is for Vancouver, BC, Canada and the surrounding areas. Usually the munches up here are well attended, some more than others. The munches in Vancouver seem to be the most popular, however Langley munch & Surrey munch are continually having the most attendees show up.
Remember that any munch is more for a vanilla ( aka coffee house ) setting in which kinksters gather to converse and discuss past/present scenes. Note: There isn’t really a specific orientation for a munch, specifically “kinky BDSM gay Dom men” as of yet, however in the future there could be. Not wanting to miss lead.
Since the hosts for each munch don’t always confirm with us or extremely late to confirm, we try to keep all the information current, it still is best to contact either the host directly or the location to confirm they have reservations for that specific munch on that night.
I like to come to the party
Doors open at 6.30 pm for Rascal’s Kinky Swap Meet this coming Saturday April 25 th
Is this on this week? May 6th?
Does one need to RSVP?
Looking for a n inexpensive male chastity device.
Would you know where I could purchase one.
preferably hand made. Thanks.
Try Little Sister’s 1238 Davie Street, Vancouver. (604) 669-1753
Please provide more info about your events. We might like to attend on June30
Hi, This is all the information we were given by the host of the event. Follow the link for more information on their event.
I had some questions about this life style I wasn’t sure if any one was at the dinner today
I will be in Vancouver June 9 – 16. Have an Asian friend that would like to find a gay male bondage dungeon party to play. Open minded and had been to a few. Is there anything in Vancouver
We have weekly events throughout the month, every month, so yes there will be something for you both. Check out our event listings here. All events are not restrictive as many of the rest of the countries events. Everyone as long as their 19+ is welcomed at Vancouver Fetish Events.
My submissive and I are traveling from Red Deer to Vancouver in Feb. We are wondering what kinds of events are going on with the kink community, as we would love to join you while we are there.
Check out our listings of the events around Vancouver, Vancouver Fetish Events
Back in Lower Mainland after a number of years and glad to see the scene has flourished, somewhat. I look forward to attending events.
Ive been searching through all the fetish sites and forums and I cant seem to find a water sports scene. Does anyone know if there are any organized watersports nights? Or do you know of anyone who has their own personal parties at their own residence? I really need some help finding like minded kinky people who want to get wet!
This is probably a silly question; having never attended a munch, how will i identify who is there for the munch and who isn’t? I wouldn’t want to walk up to the wrong group of people which of course would be a bit embarassing.
Also – i’m 27, male (looking for female) and submissive. Are their often attendees in my age group and dominant?
Thank you in advance for your reply
As with each Munch, it usually varies in size of the group attending and age range. The New West munch is one of the smaller Munches, so the chances that they will be taking up most of the restaurant is good.
I am interested in BDSM and looking to be more involved please send me emails on upcoming events thx
Go here > http://fetvancouver.com/email-list/
My husband and I are looking to spice things up in our relationship. I’m just wondering what this event exactly consists of.
Would it be possible to have a few details? Just so we know what we’d be getting into?
Hi Bianca, Sin City Fetish Night is a great entry into the world of kinky fun! Think of this as Kink with dancing, one room will be filled with dancers and another with 19+ Consensual Adults having kinky fun, some times even exhibitions like Shibari ( rope play ) or even floggers, whips and chains. Their DJ’s are some of the very best in Vancouver! They’re also secured by the Vancouver DM Team ( Dungeon Monitors ), the people with the red sashes. You’ll have to Dress to Impress, no regular street clothes are allowed, “No Effort, No Entry!”. Also, I’d look at either transit or even parking lots around the venue as there isn’t much parking close by. Plan to attend the first time just to experience Sin, then if your interested in learning more, check out a Munch in your area.
My partner and I are looking for a club or event where we can have sex amongst onlookers and others doing the same.
Are there such venues available?
If I have never attended one of these functions before, is there a protocol for new people. How do you identify the group you are looking for, what do you say when you approach, etc?
Hello, Welcome to the Wonderful World of Kink! 😉 To attend, Simply follow https://fetvancouver.com/vancouver-munches/langley-munch/ Ask for the Langley Munch or the Munch at the reception for Montana’s. Get on our Vancouver Kink Weekly mail list for any updates!
I am almost entirely new to this, I have lived my life with the desire to be a part of it and I am not sure I haven’t waited to long to truly delve into it anyway. I am married and am not looking to cheat, but I am looking to discuss desires and see whether there are options for my wife and I. She is vanilla, but has strong desires to see me with another woman at times. I just do not have anyone that I can speak to about this part of me and would like to find someone I can at least discuss it with openly and see if there is any future to my thoughts/desires.
Is a munch a place where I might find someone like this?
Let’s get one thing straight, as long as your wife knows what you are doing, and in her part consents to your BDSM actions with someone else, then it is NOT cheating!
A Munch is a great place to meet other Kinksters. You can attend a Munch in your area, or any other of the close by Munches. Note: Munches usually happen monthly, check out our Vancouver area Munch list for another Munch happening soon!
Desperate for watersports with a group of men….is there such a sub-group here????
Videos just don’t cut it!!!!
Why no group? Summed up in one word, Stigma..
I got started in BDSM about 30 years ago. Me and my partner attended a fetish club night at a hall downtown. Being new, I was freaked out about some of the things that went on! After going home and thinking about it I realized that my fetishes are weird to some just as others fetishes are weird to others. The fetish community in Vancouver is diverse. If it was divided into small little fetish sections it would no longer be viable. Attend the events. Thank the organizers. Leave with all the info you want to leave with. After 30 years I am still a newbie, but I don’t judge anymore!
Sorry, I might also comment that with attending the events you can find out about workshops detailing specific fetishes. Some might be of interest to 1 person. Some may be of interest to lots. But there is always some kind of info geared towards a wide spectrum of fetishes. Support the community and it will support you!
Is this still active?
It should be still active.
Hey Guys! Would like to tell you that I wanted to attend the event tonight but since the Odyssey was shut down till further notice I was not sure where to go or whome to contact.
I hope you guys update the venue details correctly next time.
We try to keep each event updated, which is why we suggest confirming before attending.
Hey is the event and the venue confirmed for Saturday?
According to the website, yes it is. >> http://sincityfetishnight.com/events/spank10/
Hiii. I just wanted to confirm location. I thought I saw on another site that it was at Boston Pizza. My husband & i have never attended & are new to the community… just want to be at the correct place. Cheers. Tamara
Thanks for the catch, they switched venues similar address though. Old address: 20090 91A Avenue, Langley. (604) 513-1242