50 Shades of truth

  #NSFW In this article we’re telling it like it is, clear talk about Consent and Assent!! 50 Shades of truth With the upcoming movie representation of Fifty Shades of Grey due out this month, we felt that there needed to have some light shined on certain facts from the novel series of the same Read More …

Consent vs. Assent

Consent vs. Assent Recently in the past few days the spotlight has been trained on Jian Ghomeshi, a now former CBC radio talk show host who was allegedly fired recently for the content his private sex life, namely his BDSM-like activities. All of which have been made public. Since the jury is still out, the Read More …

Yes Means Yes, Assault, Victim Blaming and What to do about it.

I’ve written about this before.  Not as articulate though. Simply put, someone did a bad and is trying to blame the victim and people are trying to let it happen because otherwise they need to take responsibility for not paying attention or investigating at the time it happened or giving the victim the support needed Read More …

Reference Checking (for New ppl & old)

How to Obtain and Check references..an addendum to Avoiding problem people. Always talk to people face to face. email isn’t enough anymore. what with sock-puppet profiles an’ all.  IM Video chat is good for making sure you are talking to real people.. after an in person coffee meat in a mall food court.. or via Read More …