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Kajir: Supposedly a Gorean term indicating a group of mixed male and female slaves; however, we are informed that it is not an authentic Gorean word, despite common use.
Kajira: Gorean term for slave girl. Plural: kajirae.
Kajirus: Gorean term for male slave. Plural: kajiri.
Kef: Gorean term for a brand with the appearance of a stylized cursive lowercase “k”. A kajira may have this branded on the inner thigh to mark her as a slave.
Kegel exercise (KAY-gull): Muscular contractions used to strengthen the pelvic floor. In women, supposed benefits include enhancing orgasmic response, tightening the vagina and reduction of incontinence.
Kidnapping play: Scenario in which the bottom is forcibly restrained and (usually) taken to another location for further play. Also see takedown for safety note. Even though this can be a Consensual form of play, this form of public play is illegal in Canada!
Kink: Unconventional sexual preferences or behavior.
Kink friendly: Usually used in reference to someone who provides a professional service, such as a doctor, counselor, leather worker, carpenter, etc. May be D/s themselves, or may be one who is accepting of D/s as a healthy lifestyle choice and is willing to help a kinkster with their needs, regardless of the views of society (and maintain confidentiality).
Kinkster: 1. A person characterized by “unusual” or fetishistic sexual preferences or behavior.
Knife play: The use of knives in a scene. Often for the psychological effect, without actually drawing blood; but sometimes used to cut as well (blood play).
Knight: see White Knight.
Kolar: Gorean term for Collar.