Beginners to BDSM 2016

Beginners to BDSM 2016

A 2013 post that bears repeating, the post Beginners to BDSM for those new to the lifestyle starting to join the ranks of the common Kinkster. The influx has been astounding, the lifestyle is slowly becoming acceptable. We now have websites like FetVancouver.com .

In the past we've heard some horror stories about non-consent violations from within our Vancouver Kink scene.  So in a effort to help stop such violations from repeating, we're re-posting this original 2013 post for Beginners to BDSM, the 2016 version. We haven't changed any of the article as it's still as relevant today, as it was back then.

We now suggest new to the lifestyle submissives find a Kink Buddy to go with them to events and even Munches . Munches are an excellent way to find friends and other like minded adults for you to ask questions or even find a Kink Buddy to go with to these events. Ask lots of questions, take notes. Play in public at first, meet in public, like a coffee shop or a Munch, which doesn't always have to be in your area.

As for Dominants, both Dom's and Domme's,  find a Mentor, a kinkster that will show you the ropes, if you will! 😉   Many Vancouver BDSM events such as Rascal's Club have BDSM Samplers at every event. You can experience some other delights with knowledgeable Kinksters, all in a judgement free environment, supervised by the awesome Vancouver DM Team. Who are equally knowledgeable.

Our advice for you Dominants is also meet in public, like at a Munch as your security is as paramount as it is for any other Kinkster.  Play in public, for the first few scenes at least, as you'd do with a new submissive or other play mate.

Beginners to BDSM 2016

We're not trying to step on any toes, just attempting, in our small way, to help keep Vancouverites safe and Kinky!

#KeepingVancouverKinky!

Beginners to BDSM

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