Top 5 Bad behaviours; A series: Better than you

A series of the Top 5 Bad Behaviours, to ID for ourselves as well as in others so as to improve ourselves as well as highlighting them in others so as to aid in avoiding Predators as those who partake of these Bad Behaviours will be more willing to cause Harm intentionally without regard.  So, over the next few weeks I will post a snippet talking about these bad behaviours and what can be done to short circuit or correct it.  As always, please feel free to leave comments below. All Rights Reserved.

This is the Second of Five Writings..

2. “Better than You” behaviour is frequently a cover for insecurity and shows itself as the need to be right all the time, the need to have the last word, the need to feel more important, better informed or intelligent than others. Break this by Realizing that humility combined with mature self-confidence is highly attractive. No one wants to feel cut down regardless of their background, income, or station in life. Every person has something valuable to contribute, so seek first to learn from others.  This goes hand in hand with Gossiping. This is one behavior that can easily become habitual. Having information about someone, especially salacious or negative information, feels powerful. We know something that inquiring minds want to know. Yet gossip causes Emotional or Mental Harm as well as Destroying trust. It takes practice and commitment to throw water on the fire of gossip. Look to pass along even handed, neutral facts only.  e person or situation and be the arbiter of kindness and healing.

 

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